I live in Alabama and am a widow/single mom and also am struggling.I have four children and can't even get help with childcare to go back to work.It's ridiculous that other single moms that aren't widowed and make way more money than my little survivor benefits gets free childcare,free housing, and foodstamps while all I can get help with 400 a month in foodstamps..I haven't been able to afford insurance, doctor bills, surgeries,or credit card payments in yrs and so now am in debt,just because Im a widow...??